Shopping for your girlfriend at Christmas can feel like a test. Too small and it looks like you did not try. Too big and it can feel like too much, too soon. Handmade jewelry sits right in the middle. It is personal, it shows you have been paying attention to her style, and it is something she will wear long after the holidays, and every time she wears it she will think of you.
This guide brings together our favorite handmade gifts for girlfriends, whether this is your first Christmas together or your fifth. You will find dainty rings that make sweet promise rings, earrings that are always a safe bet, everyday necklaces, a few darker pieces for the girlfriend with gothic style and, if you are planning something bigger, rings for a Christmas proposal. There is also practical advice on choosing the right piece for where you are in your relationship, finding her ring size without asking and ordering in time.
For your first Christmas together: the 14k Solid Gold Butterfly Earrings, tiny 4mm butterflies in solid gold.
For a promise ring: the Kiv Opal Ring, a natural oval opal in a vintage-inspired cluster setting.
For the girlfriend with gothic style: the Corgi Garnet Black Gold Ring, natural garnet in black gold.
How to choose a gift for your girlfriend
The perfect gift matches two things: her style and where the two of you are right now. Get both right and it will feel thoughtful without feeling like pressure.
Match the gift to your relationship
Earrings and necklaces are perfect at any stage. They are personal without carrying any extra meaning, which makes them ideal for a first Christmas. A ring says a little more. A dainty ring worn on her right hand or index finger is a sweet, low-pressure gift, while a ring for her left ring finger is a bigger statement, so be sure that is the message you want to send.
| Where you are | Gift ideas | Why it works |
|---|---|---|
| First Christmas together | Small earrings or an everyday necklace | Thoughtful, personal and never too much |
| A year or more | A gemstone necklace or a dainty ring for her right hand | Shows you know her style and want her to think of you every day |
| Serious and committed | A promise ring in her birthstone or favorite color | A meaningful symbol of where you are headed |
| Ready for forever | An engagement ring for a Christmas proposal | The gift and the question, all in one moment |
Look at what she already wears
Notice whether she reaches for gold or silver, delicate or bold, and whether she wears rings at all. Most pieces here come in gold, rose gold and sterling silver, so you can match what she already loves.
Choose a color with meaning
A gemstone in her birthstone or favorite color makes the gift feel personal. Opal is the October birthstone, garnet is January's and alexandrite is one of the June birthstones. Find every stone in our birthstone jewelry collection.
The best gift for your girlfriend is the one that tells her you have been paying attention.
Promise rings and dainty rings she will love
A delicate ring is one of the most romantic gifts you can give, and it does not have to be an engagement ring to mean something. These dainty styles work beautifully as a promise ring or simply as a ring she will wear every day. Browse more in our stacking rings.
Kiv Opal Ring
A natural oval opal framed by clusters of round and tapered baguette accents in a balanced, vintage-inspired setting. Opal flashes with color in the light, and it is the October birthstone.
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Ava Crystal Ring
A natural crystal marquise center with round natural crystal accents. It is clean, bright and easy to wear every day, a lovely first ring from you.
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Joan Curved Opal Band
A curved band set with a row of white fire opals that flash blue, pink and gold. It sits beautifully on its own or stacked with the rings she already wears.
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Allie Black Onyx Curved Ring
A curved chevron band with genuine black onyx stones in a cascading line. Black and gold is chic and modern, and it pairs with almost everything in her jewelry box.
Shop the Allie ring →Earrings that are always a safe bet
If you are not sure about a ring, earrings are the perfect answer. They need no size, they suit every style and they are easy for her to wear every day. These are some of our favorites for girlfriends. Explore more in our best-selling earrings.
14k Solid Gold Butterfly Earrings
Tiny 4mm butterflies in solid 14k gold, with secure screw-back closures. Small but mighty, they are sweet, playful and made to be worn every day for years.
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Pia 14k Rose Gold Black Onyx Earrings
Tiny black onyx studs in solid 14k rose gold. The dark stone against warm gold is subtle and chic, and solid gold means she can wear them every day.
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Jia Alexandrite Earrings
A round alexandrite framed by a halo of clear crystals, with butterfly backs. Alexandrite is known for changing color in different light, which makes these feel a little bit magical.
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Ula Solid Gold Hoop Earrings
Lightweight solid gold hoops with a chain link design, in a petite 6.5mm or a 10mm size. They are an easy everyday classic that goes with everything she owns.
Shop the Ula hoops →Prefer solid gold? Browse all our 14k solid gold earrings.
Necklaces she will wear every day
A pendant necklace sits close to her heart, and that is exactly why it makes such a romantic gift. These necklaces are delicate enough for every day and pretty enough for date night. See more in our gemstone necklaces.
Mia Opal Necklace
An oval white fire opal in a vintage-inspired halo of marquise and round clear crystals. It catches the light beautifully, whether she layers it or wears it alone.
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Brya Fire Opal Necklace
A fire opal pendant with clear accent stones in warm rose gold vermeil. Soft and romantic, it is easy to wear every day. The Brya also comes in gold and sterling silver.
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Lai Moss Agate Necklace
Natural moss agate accented with genuine crystals. Every moss agate has its own tiny green landscape inside, so her necklace will be completely unique.
Shop the Lai necklace →For the girlfriend with gothic style
If her wardrobe leans black and her favorite color is deep red, skip the pastels. These pieces in garnet and black gold are dark, romantic and made for her. Explore our Gothic Fantasy collection and our complete guide to garnet.
Corgi Garnet Black Gold Ring
A natural garnet center with sparkling moissanite accents, set in black gold over sterling silver. The deep red glows against the dark metal, and garnet is the January birthstone.
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Fria Garnet and Black Gold Necklace
A deep red garnet on a black gold finished chain. It is dark, elegant and a little mysterious, a perfect match for winter evenings and holiday parties.
Shop the Fria necklace →
Erie Gothic Garnet Necklace
A gothic, Art Deco-inspired pendant with a structured, architectural shape and a deep red garnet. It is a bold statement piece for a girlfriend who loves vintage drama.
Shop the Erie necklace →Thinking of proposing at Christmas?
Christmas is one of the most popular times of year to propose, and it is easy to see why: family is close, the lights are glowing and the whole season feels like a celebration. If you are ready to ask, a handmade engagement ring makes the moment even more personal. Browse our full engagement rings collection.
Quinn Opal Ring
An oval white fire opal in vintage-style filigree with scrollwork and accent stones, in a mix of rose gold vermeil and sterling silver. It comes with a matching nesting wedding band, so the set is ready for the big day too.
Shop the Quinn ring →Want to match? Our couple's ring sets, like the Nia Blue Opal Couple's Ring Set, pair her ring with a matching band for him.
Handmade in Virginia by artists with autism. Find the piece that feels like her.
Shop gifts for herWays to make her gift more romantic
- Write a short note. Tell her why you chose that stone or color. A few honest lines will mean more than you think.
- Connect it to a memory. Opal for the night you first met, moss agate for your first hike together, garnet for the first winter you spent as a couple.
- Plan the moment. Give it on a walk to see the Christmas lights, over a quiet dinner or as the last gift under the tree.
- Pick her birthstone. It shows you know the little things, and it is a gift she can wear for years.
Christmas gifts for girlfriend by budget
A thoughtful gift is about the thought, not the price. Our pieces are handmade in sterling silver, gold vermeil and solid gold, so there is something special at every budget.
- Gifts under $250: earrings, necklaces and dainty rings.
- Gifts under $500: statement pieces, ring sets and solid gold.
- Best-selling gifts: the pieces our customers give most.
- All gifts: every gift idea in one place.
Shopping for more people this year? See our guides to Christmas gifts for wife, gifts for sister, gifts for mom and gifts for friends.
Finding her ring size without asking
A ring that fits makes the surprise perfect. Here is how to find her size without giving it away:
- Borrow a ring she wears on the same finger and compare it with the size chart on the product page, or take it to a jeweler.
- Trace the inside of one of her rings on paper if you cannot borrow it for long.
- Ask her best friend or sister. They may already know, or can find out without raising suspicion.
- Remember which finger. Her right hand, index finger and ring finger can all be different sizes.
- Not sure? Choose earrings or a necklace, which need no size at all.
When to order for Christmas
Every Kherish piece is handmade to order in Virginia by artists with autism. Made to order items are handcrafted and shipped within 2-3 business days, and orders do not ship on weekends or holidays, so we recommend ordering as early in December as you can. Check the delivery estimate at checkout for your location.
Every order arrives in a Kherish pouch or box. Shipping is free within the USA.
How to care for her new jewelry
A little care keeps her gift looking beautiful. Tuck these tips into your card:
Do
- Wipe each piece with a soft, lint-free cloth after wearing
- Clean gently with warm water and a drop of mild soap, then dry well
- Store pieces separately in their pouch or box
- Put jewelry on last, after lotion, perfume and hairspray
Don't
- Wear vermeil or black gold to swim, shower or work out
- Use harsh chemicals or abrasive polishing cloths
- Soak opal or moss agate in water
- Use an ultrasonic cleaner on plated finishes or soft stones
